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Sunday, February 14, 2016

enjoy: Valentine's Day 2016 y Pablo Neruda

San Juan Capistrano's store is a wondrous place filled with local art and the rough hewn textures that recall the old West.  Here are some pictures yesterday from the Mission and from its quaint store.



"Cuerpo de mujer" ~ 20 Poemas de Amor y una Cancion Desesperada ~ Pablo Neruda
Cuerpo de mujer, blancas colinas, muslos blancos, 
te pareces al mundo en tu actitud de entrega. 
Mi cuerpo de labriego salvaje te socava 
y hace saltar el hijo del fondo de la tierra. 

Fui solo como un túnel. De mí huían los pájaros 
y en mí la noche entraba su invasión poderosa. 
Para sobrevivirme te forjé como un arma, 
como una flecha en mi arco, como una piedra en mi honda. 

Pero cae la hora de la venganza, y te amo. 
Cuerpo de piel, de musgo, de leche ávida y firme. 
Ah los vasos del pecho! Ah los ojos de ausencia! 
Ah las rosas del pubis! Ah tu voz lenta y triste! 

Cuerpo de mujer mía, persistiré en tu gracia. 
Mi sed, mi ansia sin límite, mi camino indeciso! 
Oscuros cauces donde la sed eterna sigue, 
y la fatiga sigue, y el dolor infinito.

~~~

Body of woman, white hills, white thighs,
you look yourself like a world in your attitude of surrender.
My rough peasant's body digs in you
and makes the son leap from the depths of the earth.

I was alone like a tunnel. The birds fled from me
and the night enveloped me with its crushing invasion.
To survive myself I forged to you like a weapon,
like an arrow in my bow, like a stone in my sling.

But the hour of vengeance falls, and I love you.
Body of skin, of moss, of eager and firm milk.
Ah those goblets of the chest! Ah those eyes of absence!
Ah the roses of the pubis! Ah your voice slow and sad!

Body of my woman, I will persist in your grace.
My thirst, my unbounded desire, my uncertain road!
Dark river-beds where the eternal thirst follows,
and tiredness follows, and the infinite ache.

Sunday, January 24, 2016

do: Love Letters on Valentine's Day

Stumped by what to get your loved one on Valentine's?  Look no further than a pen and a slip of paper.  There's little else beyond that.  And, there's little more than how you feel to contend with.  Sure you could still buy something, but supplant it with the letter.  But, I posit that a well crafted, well-intentioned letter will carry forward more than any gift.  How do we know this?  I've enclosed the 'Immortal Beloved' letter from Ludwig van Beethoven, from 1812.


Also, http://www.buzzfeed.com/rachelwmiller/how-to-write-a-love-letter#.wwkbVMG1ED.

There are basic facets to a well-penned letter.  The first is that it reflects how you feel.  Use a language that you are comfortable with.  Use a voice that speaks to you, it will then translate to them.  The second is to pass over it a few times.  Write the first draft quickly and thoroughly.  Then, live with it for a few days.  You'll see what I mean over time.

Less is more.  Cut whatever you've written back by a half.  Ask questions of what you have left.  Is is immediate?  Is it about them?  Is it about what no one else would say?  Is it what you wouldn't say to another person?  Is it personal?

Whenever you are done, write it out one last time - write it out in one sitting.  Let it look contiguous - let it live as a collective whole.

Want to keep love letters alive?  Go to http://www.moreloveletters.com/.
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Ludwig van Beethoven, to an unknown woman, 1812

6 July, morning

My angel, my all, my own self — only a few words today, and that too with pencil (with yours) — only till tomorrow is my lodging definitely fixed. What abominable waste of time in such things — why this deep grief, where necessity speaks?

Can our love persist otherwise than through sacrifices, than by not demanding everything? Canst thou change it, that thou are not entirely mine, I not entirely thine? Oh, God, look into beautiful Nature and compose your mind to the inevitable. Love demands everything and is quite right, so it is for me with you, for you with me — only you forget so easily, that I must live for you and for me — were we quite united, you would notice this painful feeling as little as I should…

…We shall probably soon meet, even today I cannot communicate my remarks to you, which during these days I made about my life — were our hearts close together, I should probably not make any such remarks. My bosom is full, to tell you much — there are moments when I find that speech is nothing at all. Brighten up — remain my true and only treasure, my all, as I to you. The rest the gods must send, what must be for us and shall.

Your faithful
Ludwig

Monday evening, 6 July

You suffer, you, my dearest creature. Just now I perceive that letters must be posted first thing early. Mondays — Thursdays — the only days, when the post goes from here to K. You suffer — oh! Where I am, you are with me, with me and you, I shall arrange that I may live with you. What a life!

So! Without you — pursued by the kindness of the people here and there, whom I mean — to desire to earn just as little as they earn — humility of man towards men — it pains me — and when I regard myself in connection with the Universe, what I am, and what he is — whom one calls the greatest — and yet — there lies herein again the godlike of man. I weep when I think you will probably only receive on Saturday the first news from me — as you too love — yet I love you stronger — but never hide yourself from me. Good night — as I am taking the waters, I must go to bed. Oh God — so near! so far! Is it not a real building of heaven, our Love — but as firm, too, as the citadel of heaven.

Good morning, on 7 July

Even in bed my ideas yearn towards you, my Immortal Beloved, here and there joyfully, then again sadly, awaiting from Fate, whether it will listen to us. I can only live, either altogether with you or not at all. Yes, I have determined to wander about for so long far away, until I can fly into your arms and call myself quite at home with you, can send my soul enveloped by yours into the realm of spirits — yes, I regret, it must be. You will get over it all the more as you know my faithfulness to you; never another one can own my heart, never — never! O God, why must one go away from what one loves so, and yet my life in W. as it is now is a miserable life. Your love made me the happiest and unhappiest at the same time. At my actual age I should need some continuity, sameness of life — can that exist under our circumstances? Angel, I just hear that the post goes out every day — and must close therefore, so that you get the L. at once. Be calm — love me — today — yesterday.

What longing in tears for you — You — my Life — my All — farewell. Oh, go on loving me — never doubt the faithfullest heart

Of your beloved
L
Ever thine.
Ever mine.
Ever ours.
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What to write on?  I am in love with this stationary, as it has become a bit of a commodity these days: https://www.papierplume.com/product-catalogue/stationery/kartos-station.html.  Kartos has beautiful paper with filigree and weight that is unmatched right now.  You can also find it at Barnes and Noble.

gift: Valentine's Day (Her Version)

There be time enough, time to buy something special for that lady in your life.  Yet that be said, don't be doltish and let time slip away from you.  I've scoured the far corners of the internet, those places where the sparks of imagination come to rest, and potentially alight the hearts of those ladies we love.

So let's raise a glass, take out our wallets, and pay, pay, pay...our way to love.




Aphrodisiac candy is not what it used to be, but you can get what it used to be, from Turkey, where there are definitely no camels.  Mesir macunu is said to have varying effects, one being getting you hot and heavy.  I don't need, but it would be an interesting science experiment, fire on fire.  Order this early as it is fairly difficult to get - or, try eBay if the first link is a dead end for you.  Mr. Ilter Mert, 21food.com, 90-532-6651663.
Keurig cups come in many flavors, but perhaps your love like the sweet fun of Tootsie.  Here's a K-cup hot cocoa, with Tootsie tastes.  It's Sugar, 12.99.

Etsy I love, if anything that the products come straightaway from the hand what made them.  This one stood out to me, looking best in natural light conditions.  You may include the song lyrics Lucky Star by Nacio Herb Brown and Arthur Freed.  petiteVanilla, Etsy, 9.90.






Scrutinizing the staid jewelry in the local shops, with its solid lines, I love irregular jewelry design.  This ring looks pretty and immediate, even when sitting there, but even more so when playfully worn by a beautiful hand.  LasyaJewelry, Etsy, 31.00.








Here's an easy one, that can be explained by what it is: personalized M&Ms in a heart shaped box. My M&Ms, starting at 39.99.


Want something a bit more lasting, and are actually committed for a year?  Well, e'en if it's not a year, but shorter, this gift will personalize a small token of affection, which you write, then nested in this cute locket.  It is so petite, it makes me weep.

Caveat emptor though - nothing sadder than a gift that continues onward when the romance has cooled.  Although I love those stories.  I love them so, so much.  shopRebeccaTollefsen, Etsy, 40.00.

A lock and key, you say?  This is for those ladies that have everything, except a practical lock.  Some of you may say, how is this romantic?  I don't know, something ancient and beguiling about it.  Perhaps showing you are serious.  Serious about locking her in your dungeon.  Olive and Cocoa, 38.00. 
So these 'screened graphics atop an antique page' has been out for some time, but how about something more anatomically correct?  It's a heart, so it says I love you.  It may say a lot of other things about you too.  Knock her dead, tiger.  MadameBricolagePrint, Etsy, 10.69.
Have a geeky girl?  S'no problem!  This pretty Groot Spores Bracelet will make her geek out and remember the time you tried to go to second base at the local AMC a few years ago.  Well, it was the start of something sweet either way.  I am Groot!  Think Geek, 14.99.

Speaking of mix tapes (*Guardians), how's about it?  I personally think it is a lost art form that was heroically brought back through Marvel.  Well, you can create your own, via http://8tracks.com/.  Pick your eight tracks, put your gal's name on it and let the lovin' commence.  I like this one by milldread http://8tracks.com/milldread/l-amour.  Makes me believe in love exists, somewhere.  Perhaps a hopeless romantic lost in the side streets of a brisk night along the Champs-Elysees, not realizing that's about as good as it's going to get, schmuck.

Original art is it.  It is original, personal and typically lovingly made.  Consider paintings from independent artists.  I've chosen Scarlett Clay, since her oil pieces of the sea speak to me.  She has a piece now at 45.00.  I heart it much.

Find more at Pinterest.
Spider-Gwen Tee - love the designs of both the new Batgirl and Gwen Stacy.  It would make a hawt pajama.  ThinkGeek, 19.95.
Jean-Michel Basquiat gets my blood warming up, with art that makes you react.  In Untitled, 1982 I see calculated destruction with mathematical preciseness.  Now on a plate.  I'd eat a hot dog from it.  Moma, 99.95.